This idea was born out of a "silly" facebook questionnaire - but so many people had such valuable wisdom to share, i wanted to get it all in one place as a resource for myself and anyone else!
Please send me additional items for the existing categories or suggestions for new categories and items and i will update it! some items are duplicated because they just seemed to fit in multiple places, and i am sure other items shoudl be in multiple places but i didn't catch it. If i missed any of the original submissions- send those along too!
Feel free to share this with anyone anywhere who might enjoy or find it valuable.